[{"data":1,"prerenderedAt":-1},["ShallowReactive",2],{"post-post-1771592299425-1wnlzow":3,"comments-post-1771592299425-1wnlzow":14},{"id":4,"communityId":5,"authorId":6,"authorName":7,"title":8,"content":9,"imageIPFS":10,"createdAt":11,"upvotes":12,"downvotes":13,"score":12,"commentCount":13},"post-1771592299425-1wnlzow","c-unpopularopinions","usr_a1b2c3d4","kartik_dev","Replying to every message instantly has ruined how people communicate","I used to respond to messages within minutes. Always available, always online.\n\nThen I realized: I was training people to expect instant access to me at all times. And I was getting anxious whenever I saw an unread message.\n\nNow I check messages when I choose to. I reply in a few hours, sometimes the next day.\n\nPeople called it rude at first. Then they adjusted. Now my conversations are actually more thoughtful.\n\nInstant communication is a feature, not an obligation. You're allowed to be unavailable.","",1771592299425,64,0,{"comments":15,"total":13},[]]